Funeral and sympathy flowers: customs by culture
Which flowers and colours suit funerals and condolences in China, Japan, Korea, Europe and North America — and what to avoid.
| Region | Common choices | Avoid |
|---|---|---|
| Chinese mainland, Hong Kong, Taiwan | White and yellow chrysanthemums, white lilies, white roses; muted white and yellow palettes | Red and other bright, celebratory colours |
| Japan | White chrysanthemums, white lilies and other white flowers | Red flowers; thorny (roses) or strongly scented flowers are often avoided |
| Korea | White chrysanthemums (the standard funeral flower) | Bright colours |
| Western Europe and North America | Lilies (especially white), white roses, carnations, chrysanthemums; wreaths and standing sprays | — |
| France, Italy, Belgium | Chrysanthemums are used for graves and All Saints' Day (Nov 1) | Giving chrysanthemums to the living |
| Russia and Eastern Europe | An even number of stems for funerals and remembrance | Even numbers for the living (give odd numbers) |
Customs vary by family, religion and region — ask the client when unsure.
FAQ
Can chrysanthemums be given as a gift?
It depends on the region. In China, Japan, Korea, France, Italy and Belgium they are linked to funerals and graves; in the US and Australia they are everyday gift flowers (Australians often give them on Mother's Day).
What colour flowers suit a Chinese funeral?
White and yellow; avoid red and other celebratory colours.
Are strongly scented flowers fine for condolences?
For condolences and hospital visits it is better to avoid strong scents; Floraboard flags them automatically for these occasions.